L0 N93pO$t kYk 91tU 8i4R d!pU7i y4H?1!?1!?
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Wkwkwkwkkwkwkww btr ketawa dulu wkwkwkhahahahha
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Ok karna ada yg bilang kalo posts #30haribercerita gue ini bisa membuat orang lain mikir gue sombong, atau mikir luka2 gue di share biar gue dipuji, atau mikir gue punya sifat2 “buruk” lainnya, atau posts itu bisa melukai orang lain dan membuka luka adalah hal yg tidak patut dibagikan, jadi acu mau sedikit cerita ttg hal ini. Ehe
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First and foremost: ALL YOUR EMOTIONS (SADNESS, ANGER, FEAR, HAPPINESS, DISGUST, SURPRISE) YOUR SCARS, YOUR VULNARABILITY, YOUR FAILURES AND YOUR JOURNEY ARE ALL VALID.
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Second, YOU ARE FULLY AUTHORIZED OF WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. REALLY, NO NEED OTHER’S APPROVAL. DO IT IF YOU WANT TO. AND YOU WILL NEVER EVER SATISFY EVERY SINGLE FRKN PERSON IN THIS WORLD, HONEY😘
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I was veryyy veryyyy people pleasing. Beneran banyak mendem perasaan karna “ngga enakan” sm orang lain kalo aku punya rasa sedih, marah atau senang yg aku tunjukkan. Dan tahun ini alhamulillah bisa dikit2 set boundaries, boundaries itu pentinkk yahh ol!!
Mau nge state beberapa hal yg ku pelajari di tahun ini:
– My worth doesn’t come from what other people think about me. Gue nge post sesuatu mau sombong atau bukan, urusan gue. Dan kalo lo mikir kyk gitu, jd siapa yg harus bersihin hati? #sorrynotsorry🤷♀️
– I’m not responsible for other peoples emotion. Really, kalo lo ngerasa post gue toxic, just.block.me.instead😘
– I shouldn’t deny or repress parts of myself in order to be loved or chosen. Ngga lagi lagi memendem apa yg ku rasakan, gaperlu juga semua orang seneng sm gue🤪
– My family’s approval is not more than my own needs, want, desired. Family comes first, but boundaries are boundaries!🌻
– Saying “NO” or prioritizing my self care is not selfish. Self love is the new sexy yo!!💃
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Sekian, my rants yg dah lama mau ku keluarin tp selalu takut HAHAHA yaudah keluar jugak, aaahhh legaaa
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#30hbc #30hbc2020 #30haribercerita #30hbc2029 #day29 #boundaries #peoplepleasing
